Handling a Divorce

Hello I need all kinds of help. But I don't know English so I am going through difficult times. Because I am very weak physically and financially. And my court case and the isolation, loneliness, depression and anxiety panic attacks. A lot of difficulties are being faced.please help me.I am a victim of domestic abuse. But now I have been made a respondent. And I am not able to explain my point to anyone. And I am also given an interpreter in the court. They have already met with my husband's lawyer and everything I say to the judge is being misrepresented. I am not able to explain to you what is happening to me. Is . I go to court alone. I have no friends or family in this country. I don't even have a lawyer. And seeing me alone, I am being oppressed. I am not being heard anywhere. Made a false complaint against me. A false case was registered and then investigation was conducted. And the police found out that all this was a lie. No evidence has been found regarding whatever facts have been stated by my husband in this case. Nor do these facts in any way indicate that such a situation ever arose. These facts are facts which are not stable. Then how is this the case? Current judge of the court. He is neither listening to me nor looking at me. I don't have any lawyer. And somehow I am handling my case myself. And I am not educated. And I have been given interpreters. He doesn't even tell the judge my story. He will just tell me what the judge and the lawyer said. I don't know how to speak English but I understand a little bit. And I understand everything what is happening to me. Injustice is being done to me. I have a house and I live in that house. And there is nothing else in this country except this house. And this house is being taken away from me. And allegations are being made that I have done this forcefully in my name. But it is nothing like that. My husband himself went to a lawyer and gave me this house as a wedding gift. And the court and the husband's lawyer have asked me for evidence about this house. And I have also submitted all the evidence in the court. But my evidence was ignored. My husband has filed three cases against me. And now the divorce case is going on. And I have no problem with divorce. I don't want to live with him. But now the thing is that in order to get a divorce in this country, there is no need to tell whether our partner is good or bad. Meaning, someone gets divorced just like this. If my husband wanted a divorce, he would have taken it directly. But he filed a false case. The oppression was so terrible that I was raped in 2013. And after that I was intimidated and mind washed. That if it is like this with you then the same thing will happen if you tell anyone. And the woman who scared me by saying all these things and forced me to live with thisman. And that woman was paid 40,000 pounds by my husband for this thing. Husband’ssister used to say that book his ticket and send him to India. He has

Hello I need all kinds of help. But I don't know English so I am going through difficult times. Because I am very weak physically and financially. And my court case and the isolation, loneliness, depression and anxiety panic attacks. A lot of difficulties are being faced.please help me.I am a victim of domestic abuse. But now I have been made a respondent. And I am not able to explain my point to anyone. And I am also given an interpreter in the court. They have already met with my husband's lawyer and everything I say to the judge is being misrepresented. I am not able to explain to you what is happening to me. Is . I go to court alone. I have no friends or family in this country. I don't even have a lawyer. And seeing me alone, I am being oppressed. I am not being heard anywhere. Made a false complaint against me. A false case was registered and then investigation was conducted. And the police found out that all this was a lie. No evidence has been found regarding whatever facts have been stated by my husband in this case. Nor do these facts in any way indicate that such a situation ever arose. These facts are facts which are not stable. Then how is this the case? Current judge of the court. He is neither listening to me nor looking at me. I don't have any lawyer. And somehow I am handling my case myself. And I am not educated. And I have been given interpreters. He doesn't even tell the judge my story. He will just tell me what the judge and the lawyer said. I don't know how to speak English but I understand a little bit. And I understand everything what is happening to me. Injustice is being done to me. I have a house and I live in that house. And there is nothing else in this country except this house. And this house is being taken away from me. And allegations are being made that I have done this forcefully in my name. But it is nothing like that. My husband himself went to a lawyer and gave me this house as a wedding gift. And the court and the husband's lawyer have asked me for evidence about this house. And I have also submitted all the evidence in the court. But my evidence was ignored. My husband has filed three cases against me. And now the divorce case is going on. And I have no problem with divorce. I don't want to live with him. But now the thing is that in order to get a divorce in this country, there is no need to tell whether our partner is good or bad. Meaning, someone gets divorced just like this. If my husband wanted a divorce, he would have taken it directly. But he filed a false case. The oppression was so terrible that I was raped in 2013. And after that I was intimidated and mind washed. That if it is like this with you then the same thing will happen if you tell anyone. And the woman who scared me by saying all these things and forced me to live with thisman. And that woman was paid 40,000 pounds by my husband for this thing. Husband’ssister used to say that book his ticket and send him to India. He has

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You can see more via the gov.uk link here . However, this will cost. You can see more about the financial side of things via the CAB link here .

I married a french man in 2005. We split up roughly 18 months later. I haven't seen him for at least 4 years and he has since returned either to France or Switzerland. There are no children involved, nor did we have any form of property. I now want to re-marry but am at a loss as to how I first obtain a divorce. I really don't know where to start; for example, I live on benefits - does this mean I can get help with court costs? I'm not sure what questions I should be asking and any information you can give me would be much appreciated.

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As a UK-based website, I'm afraid we can only advice on UK-based family law, not US.

How can I go about getting an order to be carried out? I received my divorce early February 2016 in Houston, TX. The other party was order to pay me money owed & the sale of their property, halving the proceedings with myself.This has not taken place.Who or where can I seek help with seeing that the order is carried out?

I will keep this as brief as possible just to lay out the bare facts. My wife and I moved here to southern Italy in 2007. Unbeknownst to me she had already started to make 'just in case' plans before we left and started looking for and paying a deposit on a house before she even left the UK to join me in our new dream home. Myself and everyone who knows us really thought that we were Mr & Mrs ideal. She left here without any warning on the 29th August 2013 and moved into a flat in Bristol. I have since discovered that for over 7 years prior to leaving she was slowly moving money from our accounts into a private account that I was unaware of. I have now accumulated all the bank statements, various solicitors letters, tax returns that clearly show how much she has in her private account and that she has left me almost penniless in a foreign country. I certainly cannot even consider employing a solicitor, I really am broke and can just manage on my UK state pension. Of course I could say a lot more and have actually written over 5, A4 pages just listing all of her despicable, underhand and deceitful actions. How can I regain some of MY money? If you need any further information I am happy to provide it. I am desperate. Regards Gerry Rigley

i live in northern ireland can i apply for scottish legal aid

@ransacked - if you have been left with the house then you need to change the locks asap and see your solicitor about her legal right to the possessions and whether it is worth your while taking this back to court.

The court order detailing the financial settlement of our divorce has been implemented a few days ago. The order stated that she was to receive cash, I would keep the house and take on the existing mortgage. It also stated that we have to agree how items would be split and that disputed items would become posessions of the holding party unless the court is asked within 30 days to resolve this. Since then, I have discovered that she has taken things from the house we agreed would stay. What can I do to remedy this situation? what is the legal process?