Breach of Court Order: What Steps to Take Next?

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Breach of Court Order: What Steps to Take Next?
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I have a court order in order to see my daughter. In court the times were agreed as to when I get to see my daughter. Her mother keeps changing the times when I can pick her up so is constantly in breach of the court order.

I am not happy with this and there is no reasoning with the mother. How do I take it back to court?

What is a contact order?

A contact order is a court order that sets out when and how someone who does not live with a child can spend time with them. These orders can be made for parents, grandparents, siblings, or any other individual with a significant relationship to the child.

The Children and Families Act 2014 consolidated contact orders, residence orders and other related orders into a single child arrangements order. This simplification means one order now specifies both who a child lives with and who they spend time with. Many people still use the term contact order, and older orders made under the previous system remain valid.

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When does a breach occur?

A breach happens when someone fails to follow what the court order says. This might mean refusing to allow contact, consistently arriving late for handovers, or not returning a child at the agreed time.

Minor or occasional deviations do not always amount to a breach. Courts recognise that family life can be unpredictable. A child falling ill, transport problems, or a genuine emergency will usually be treated differently from deliberate obstruction. Work commitments or scheduling conflicts may also be considered reasonable excuses depending on the circumstances.

The difficulty arises when one parent appears to be deliberately preventing contact or repeatedly ignoring the terms of the order. This can be distressing for the parent being denied time with their child and can affect the child's relationship with that parent.

Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.

Steps to take before going to court

Before making a formal application, try to resolve matters directly. Speak to the other person if you can. Sometimes misunderstandings or practical problems can be sorted out through conversation.

If direct communication does not work, mediation is the next recommended step. Attending a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting is mandatory in most cases before the court will accept an enforcement application. Exemptions exist for situations involving domestic abuse, where a non-molestation order is in place, or in cases of genuine emergency. A mediator can help both parties reach an agreement, and this formal step must usually be completed before court proceedings can begin.

A solicitor's letter setting out the terms of the order and the consequences of non-compliance might prompt the other person to reconsider their behaviour, though this approach does not always succeed.

Keep a record of any breaches. Note the date, what was supposed to happen, and what actually occurred. This evidence will be useful if you do need to apply to court.

Applying to court for enforcement

If informal steps fail, you can apply to the court for enforcement. Child arrangements orders made or varied after 8 December 2008 include a warning notice explaining the consequences of failing to comply. This warning notice is required before the court can take enforcement action.

You will need to complete form C79 to enforce a child arrangements order. The relevant forms and guidance are available on GOV.UK.

The court has several options when dealing with a breach:

  • Ordering the person in breach to carry out unpaid work
  • Awarding compensation for financial losses caused by the breach
  • Varying the existing order
  • In serious cases, finding the person in contempt of court

The court will consider whether the person had a reasonable excuse for failing to comply. If they did not, and the breach is proved, the court will decide what action to take based on the circumstances.

Where disputes become particularly difficult, Cafcass may become involved to provide independent advice to the court about what is best for the child.

Legal aid may be available for enforcement applications, particularly where there is evidence of domestic abuse. Check your eligibility through GOV.UK or speak to a solicitor.

The court's main concern will always be the welfare of the child. This means looking at factors such as the child's emotional needs, the likely effect of any change in circumstances, and the capability of each parent to meet the child's needs.

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CourtroomAdvice Editor 24/05/2026 at 9:15 am
@Grandma You're right to be concerned. A court ordered contact arrangement is legally binding, and the local authority has to follow it just like anyone else. If contact is repeatedly being pushed back to six weeks or three months instead of monthly, your son should raise it formally with the social worker and their team manager in writing first. If nothing changes, he can apply back to court to enforce the order, and it's worth getting a family solicitor involved, especially as legal aid may be available in care cases.
Grandma 12/11/2023 at 1:42 pm
My son’s child is in full time care he has parental rights shared with local authority and mother his court ordered contact is supposed to be monthly and it’s being arranged by social services 6wkly or longer sometimes up to 3 months between contacts. Should this be allowed I thought a court ordered contact was legally binding for all parties involved?
Linda Gilday 23/09/2023 at 12:09 pm
I was issused on the 8th of August this year a court order by the tribunal service for the loss of wages and holiday pay by my previous employer.
I have heard nothing since and i'm not sure who i contact now with regards to getting my court order paid, any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks
Clare 18/09/2023 at 2:25 am
I have no faith in our justice system what so ever. I left my ex husband 4 years ago as I was in a controlling relationship. I was mentally, physically, emotionally and financially abused by this man and he put my children through the mill. My youngest child has just turned 12 and has refused point blank to see or have anything to do with her dad as have the eldest 2 (age 25 & 21). I have never stopped him personally from seeing her. We have recently moved to Devon from Manchester, he has taken me to court to see her and got 1.5 hours a fortnight in a contact centre, she went twice and now refuses. He has now put a prohibit steps order application and a child arrangement order in place to the courts and won this meaning I now have to return my daughter to Manchester and to go to school in Manchester when she had a place at a school in Devon. We have nowhere to live in Manchester. I spoke to the cafcass officer who advised me to go to my local council and register homeless and to be put in a refuge or hostel. To me this is ludicrous as I have a perfectly good home and my daughter has a perfectly good bedroom of her own. This court order is in place till January 24. My daughter is still refusing to see him and her mental health is being effected now as she hates living in Manchester. I have brought her back to Devon as this is effecting both me and her and also my parents as they expected us to stay there, they are far to old for all this stress and can not deal with it all. I have breached the court order but I have to put the welfare of my daughter first. Please advise on what to do next.
Bonbon 12/08/2023 at 3:29 am
My daughter was adopted 4yrs ago and I was given contact 5times a year but I haven't seen her for the last year all because I changed my mobile number in as many years due to getting a better tarif yet my landline number has stayed the same when the final order was made my solicitor was retiring and gave me her personal number so I could get in contact if things changed or went wrong as she knew I wouldn't get legal aid again now I need to take them back to court I have lost the solicitor number the only way forward is to represent myself how do I or is there a better way for me to approach this situation kind regards Mark Goddard
Concerned 19/06/2023 at 10:55 pm
What can you do when a judge states our counsel are fixated on the rules, and is lenient towards the side that broke the court order?
Annie 18/05/2023 at 10:26 pm
My granted Court order signed by the Judge was deleted at Admin Court and False court order not signed by the Judge was used to deport me.
My records at Admin Court tampered and Court hearing Deleted as Court Manager and Home Office working together to Forged court order and deport person illegally.
The Court Managers have been fired/replaced but no compensation or contact from the Court to remove false order has been done and it is now nearly 20 years of complaint and appeals
Lou84 29/03/2023 at 10:18 pm
The children and me have been abused by the father and the court order said no direct contact by the father to the children, so he message directly to eldest child age 15 which they don’t wish to be contacted by him and they have mental health, he text directly and made the children have panick attacks it really affected them badly and don’t feel safe, so what should I do? Prohibited order has expired They have social services involved has been informed about this
DVee 21/03/2023 at 6:04 am
I’ve got court because I failed to attend my unpaid work already bin once to court and they added extra hours but this is my second breach I’ve had medical notes but last 3 I did not provide does anyone no what I could be looking at for my second breach ? And when I go back court will I be sentenced that day or will it get enjoured?
Andy 08/03/2023 at 3:49 pm
I have a court order in place, following my ex and my seperation. She made several false allegations to the police that happened to coincide with every court case.
The court rulled i have access to my daughter every 2 weeks. Recently my ex moved to Wales without telling me, and i have only seen my daughter once. I am trying to work out how i contact the court as i feel sge is breaking the court order and making a mockery of the justice system again. Please can someone advise what i should do.
Pullencharrose 04/01/2023 at 11:48 am
I have a court order with my ex partner for our daughter, I have a live with order and an order for half terms to be split equally. We agreed for him to have her 22/12/22-30/12/22. He had refused all week to return her and refused me indirect contact. He still hasn’t returned her. I have sent off the enforcement forms but I do not have the financial means to get a solicitor again. I do not qualify for legal aid. I have seemed all information I’m able, I’m at a loss and just don’t know what to do. My daughter is 8.
Linda 04/01/2023 at 11:35 am
Myself and ex husband have a court order . In it it states he has to pay £200 child maintenance per month . I made sure that it was in the court order because for over a year he wouldn’t pay what CMS were telling him to pay . I got a letter recently from CMS stating he hasn’t worked since August and claiming benefits . He has his own business and still posting all the projects he has and is working on . This month he refused to pay child maintenance. I’m a single parent and need that money for my child . He’s not single and they are both working , have just moved into a berry expensive rented house , hosted parties over Xmas and new year . Offered to buy our daughter footie boots just 3 days ago but pretending to me that he has no money . Who can I contact about this ??? He’s a narcissist 100% and just wants his own way
Vaun 23/11/2022 at 6:25 am
Firstly I think its ludicrous that my ex has my child for 6 out of 14 days as 3 are spent with his parents, can you apply for a seperate order regarding this?

Uniforms were meant to be supplied by him thus was in the order but he ignores it and leaves it to me still. I'm a single parent with no transport it's getting ridiculous and our son is left suffering.

He had a row with his girlfriend and I was told he dragged my child because he was upset. Its not good enough.

Who do you actually tell that he is not complying?
Misty 01/09/2022 at 11:53 am
I’m so upset. I’m meant to have contact with my son 6 times a year, I haven’t seen him for nearly 4 as the foster carers and social workers agreed that it was emotionally upsetting him after leaving contact so they left it up to him to decide if he wanted to come or not. Now I haven’t seen him since December 2018 I keep asking and I write letters but never hear nothing back from him. He doesn’t read my letters I’m told. Now apparently he wants no involvement with SS so they’re going to put forward for an SGO. I don’t know what to do, they give him everything. He wants for nothing and obviously he doesn’t want me in his life anymore.
hope 20/08/2022 at 11:09 am
something bad happened last year he broke order but it wasn't his fault he's ex-girlfriend has mental issues had to go home but his daughter was there with her partner the ex-wife is always late surgery hasn't seen his children because she's saying he can't see them they've moved all the way up north today she's coming to pick up a bag of toys and clothes is it right for what she's doing because he's always paying maintenance birthday money and Christmas money but she won't even let him have a phone call
Vicki 22/07/2022 at 6:34 pm
There are several court orders in place that my ex has deliberately broken over the last 2-2.5 years. Is there anything I can do to make him abide by these and stop threatening me every time he wants his own way.
Susan 02/06/2022 at 7:49 pm
I am a grandmother who recently won the case against the mother and she has breached the court order DONT know what to do next
RH 13/08/2021 at 5:38 am
It's amazing how similar these stories are, be it from a mother or father. I have a question, what kind of evidence is required if my ex wife keeps stopping the kids from seeing my on the days I'm supposed to have them? Let's say the agreement is for me to puck them up at 0900 on a Saturday morning but when i arrive she doesn't answer the door, pretends she's out. Do I video it? Will that be taken as evidence? But she might say that she was in, I videoed at a different time and changed my phone settings or something. I could ask the kids to provide a statement but I don't want to involve them. If anyone has any advice on this I'd be grateful, thanks,
dad 10/08/2021 at 2:35 am
It seems I am looking at the storm.. and already in a nightmare. I have been hit by my wife many times. Our son has been brought to tears by her many times. Also hit. False allegations have been made by her. I was primary carer. Keys to my home were taken from me by a conniving police woman who believed my now-ex's false allegations. And now she is breaching an already demeaning court order (the former primary carer stay-at-home dad gets given "contact"). It is now 2021 and the word 'contact' is still used, and living with Dad is spoken about as if a dad is dangerous. I feel abused by the system. CAFCASS officers are not trained to deal with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They cannot see it when it is in plain sight, and instead they believe many of the lies told to them. Our son is misquoted by CAFCASS, and lead in the interview. All I can do is be absolutely truthful, love my son, and not hold back from condemnation of my ex-wife's behaviour. And hope for understanding. Also try to see what is coming and preempt her lies. I hope that, by now, in 2021, it is possible to get a CAFCASS worker with the necessary experience at least.
Fred 24/07/2021 at 12:48 am
Ive lost,in court to have,my,son,he lives with his,dad,due to me drinking in the,past,dont drink now .the,judge,said,i can see,my son,as his dad says,4 to six times a year only,with,my sister,then after,a while i probably, can have,my son for a day,then over,night,stays ,but they both,are not letting me,do that,i have,only seen my son twice,in 2 years,sept,2009,plus we had covid,what can i do
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